Negotiating Sex within Love with Jacqueline Hellyer

“Can you have wicked sex with someone you love?”  In fact, can you have any sex other than the tamest vanilla version with a long-term loving partner? It’s a fraught area that leaves so many couples stuck within very limited ‘safe’ boundaries of sexual relating.

In this experiential and discussion-based workshop Jacqueline will lead couples though processes that allow them to develop the skills and understandings that enable constant negotiation and through that ongoing sexual growth within a loving relationship.

Covering topics such as the primacy of the ‘couple bubble’ and dealing with ‘thirds’; creating a safe space that allows for openness and honesty; soothing self and other; pacing, and more – this workshop is a must for every couple who wants to go beyond their limits to the dangerous yet potentially rewarding areas beyond.


Jacqueline Hellyer is one of Australia’s foremost experts on sex and sexuality – inspiring and healing through her work as a professional sex therapist, sex coach, Tantra teacher, author, blogger, media commentator and workshop leader.

Her knowledge and experience, from the scientific to the Tantric to the kinky, is as broad as it gets and she shares it in an incredibly open and inspiring way. She enables people to become fully in touch with their sexuality and to use this powerful energy to create extraordinary lives for themselves.

Jacqueline is very excited to be part of this festival of sexuality, helping people to explore their eroticism and sensuality.